The Japanese Sun Goddess, Amaterasu, emerging from a cave. She is a Japanese deity that is linked to reincarnation.

Past Life Memories of Children and Past Life Regression: A Case for Reincarnation?

There are times when a person feels like they have been somewhere before or just “knows” things or people without having met them before. Often we write this off as the strange experience of déjà-vu or a coincidence. Imagine that the experience multiplies and an individual says they remember exact details about other people, and places they have never experienced, maybe they can even speak a language never taught to them. Some people claim they have had these experiences - and scientists have taken an interest in their cases. Research has been done to try to find if there is validity to the experiences, but there are some instances where the situation has been unexplainable by science…could it be reincarnation at play?

Reincarnation: A Simple Definition for a Complex Idea

First it is important to take a short look at what reincarnation is about. It is not a synonym for past life regression (PLR) or past life memories, although these are often used as so-called “proof” of reincarnation. Reincarnation is also not necessarily a religious belief. Although it is associated by many with specific religions, it is not necessary that a person identifying with a religion accepts the prospect of reincarnation or a person to follow a specific religion to accept reincarnation either.

One simple definition of reincarnation (there are many) can be: the rebirth of a soul into another vessel. People who believe in reincarnation may see the body and mind as two separate entities. Thus the idea is that when the body dies the mind does not die as well; instead the mind (or spirit) leaves the body and continues its journey into another life. Reincarnation is also associated with karma in most beliefs, or the idea that the soul passes on a spiritual journey where the past and future are connected by life choices.


Reincarnation. ( Himalayan Academy )

One must note that there are obviously many individuals that disagree with the concept of reincarnation in totality and see this as the only life (often doing the best they can to make it a good one!) Or see the end of this life as the means to reach a final resting place… be it “good,” “bad,” or neutral. The article here will not be focused on these ideas about the afterlife (themes for the future); alternatively, this article examines the experiences of past life memories and past life regression - two concepts that are often associated with reincarnation.

Past Life Memories in Children: Dr. Stevenson’s Lifelong Research Project

There have been numerous cases of children spontaneously “remembering” past lives. One of the most famous doctors associated with documenting these past life memories in children was Dr. Ian Stevenson. Dr. Stevenson, who died in 2007, studied over 2500 cases of children that reported past life memories. Of these, he said that 1200 of his cases could be objectively validated.

Dr. Stevenson mostly studied cases of past life memories in children from areas where reincarnation was a dominant belief (i.e. Asia, India…). From his forty years of research he identified seven common features to the past life memories of children, which he himself stated was only evidence, not proof.

  1. The child begins to describe a past life experiences as soon as (s)he begins to communicate.
  2. The child remembers details of his/her death from a past life.
  3. There is enough description provided on the family of the child’s past incarnation that the past family is eventually identified.
  4. There is continuity in the personality traits, preferences, and habits across the incarnations.
  5. 90% of the time gender also remains the same.
  6. Physical appearance, especially facial features, tends to be similar between past and present lives.
  7. Reincarnation renews familial/social relationships.

The Hanan Monsour/Suzanne Ghanem Story of Childhood Past Life Memories

Perhaps the best-known story in childhood past life memories is that of Hanan Monsour/Suzanne Ghanem. In the mid 1930s Hanan was born in Lebanon. In her twenties she married a man named Farouk Monsour.  The couple had two daughters, Leila and Galareh, but after their second daughter was born Hanan developed a heart condition and was told not to have more children. She ignored the warning and gave birth to a son in 1962. In 1963 Hanan’s health worsened and at the age of 36 she went to Virginia to have heart surgery. She tried repeatedly to telephone her daughter Leila before she had the surgery but was unable to communicate with her that she wanted her jewelry split evenly between her daughters if she did not survive.

Hanan died of complications of her surgery. Ten days later Suzanne Ghanem was born. When Suzanne was 16 months old she reportedly pulled the telephone off the hook and repeatedly said, “Hello. Leila?” This seemed strange to her parents as they did not know anyone named Leila. Once she was a little older she told her family that Leila was her daughter and she wasn’t Suzanne, she was Hanan. By the time Suzanne was two, claims say that she told her current family the names of 13 of the family members from her past life family.

Photos of Hanan Monsour and Suzanne Ghanem. Believers in Dr. Stevenson’s characteristics of childhood past life memory experiences see a similarity between the facial features of the two women.

Photos of Hanan Monsour and Suzanne Ghanem. Believers in Dr. Stevenson’s characteristics of childhood past life memory experiences see a similarity between the facial features of the two women. ( IISIS)

The Ghanem family was surprised by Suzanne and began looking for the Monsour family. When the two families met the Monsours originally doubted that Suzanne was Hanan. They became less skeptical after Suzanne is said to have correctly named several of Hanan’s family members in photographs. When Suzanne was five years old she called Farouk at least three times a day and when she visited him she liked to sit on his lap and rest her head against his chest. Farouk eventually agreed that Suzanne was the reincarnation of his deceased wife after she was able to tell stories that only Hanan was thought to have known. 

A video on the research of Dr. Jim Tucker (including the famous case of Anne Frank/ Barbro Karlen) can be watched here:

The Past Healing the Present: Past Life Regression (PLR) Therapy

To participate in past life regression, a person undergoes hypnosis with a goal to remember and often times heal problems from their past or present lives, or are trying to find their purpose in this incarnation. The participant is said to see, experience, and feel their past incarnations, with a guided journey following cues from a trained therapist.

With these characteristics in mind, it is not surprising that PLR is more common in adults than children. Many skeptics (including the previously mentioned researcher Dr. Stevenson), believe that the tales of past lives are more difficult to validate in adults than children, thus PLR in adulthood may be “tainted” by memories that are (unknowingly or intentionally) created by adults or false memories planted by well-meaning therapists.

Hypnotic séance (1887) Richard Bergh

Hypnotic séance (1887) Richard Bergh ( Wikimedia Commons )

Nonetheless, many people who have undergone PLR therapy claim that it has greatly benefitted them in their current lives psychologically and/or interpersonally. As PLR includes noting promises, failures and successes, trauma, wisdom, etc. along with positive and negative life patterns, it is meant to help the participant to identify not only their memories and behaviors in the past, but also to find current means to break bad habits/patterns and tap into strengths they are thought to have across their lifetimes. This type of therapy is reportedly useful for strong phobias as well.

The question remains how much more useful this type of therapy is compared to other psychological therapies. Research also must continue into the validity of the experiences of PLR.

A video discussing the famous PLR case of Robert Snow/Carroll Beckwith (a homicide detective who went through PLR on a dare and later used the information to investigate to prove/disprove his experience) can be watched here:

Traumatic Memories May Also Leave an Imprint that Passes Down through the Generations

In other research related to memories and different life spans, scientists have also studied the possibility that memories directly pass down through our genes. In a study published in Nature Neuroscience in 2013, researchers trained mice to fear a certain aroma by shocking them when the scent was present. They found that the future offspring of the mice showed an aversion to the same smell with no other stimulus presented. There were also changes in the brain structure of the next generation’s mice. The researchers of the study showed that there was a correlation between the traumatic event they created and the DNA in the sperm of the mice.

The phenomena of remembering past lives is intriguing and currently not explainable by science. Much like other experiences that cross spiritual and scientific boundaries, this does not necessarily prove or disprove the validity of the occurrences by itself. Reincarnation and memories passing through different lifetimes are areas of research that are still very much open to interpretation.

Featured Image: The Japanese Sun Goddess, Amaterasu, emerging from a cave. She is a Japanese deity that is linked to reincarnation. ( Wikimedia Commons )

By Alicia McDermott


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I had two sessions of past life regression many years ago. The experiences of visiting myself in various lives seemed as real as me typing these words now. The scenes are as fresh in my mind as remembering episodes of my present life. No different really.Yet for many years, I couldn't say they were absolutely real beyond any doubt. The following is an encounter with a man who came to my boat in La Paz, Mexico to ask me about repairing his newly purchased sailboat.

Alex was facing me on the aft deck talking about his problem when a scene from one of my past lives was replayed before my eyes. I was walking down a narrow street in old France circa 1400AD give or take a century. I heard the clash of swords, and men shouting, so I rushed toward the sound of the battle. As I turned a corner, I saw two of my friends engaged in a sword fight with three adversaries. I drew my sword, and joined the battle. Within a minute or so, the leader gave the order to retreat. They turned, and ran away. I knew that the person across from me now, was the leader. I was speechless for a few seconds then I said to him: "It's you." He was silent, then he said, "we withdrew." That was all that was said, my statement, and his answer.

No other reference had ever been made by either of us on this subject or any other subject related to the paranormal. We went on with boat stuff, and never said another word about that strange occurrence one sunny day under the canvas shade at anchor in Baja.

This is an interesting article, which talks about something I've been saying all along. Our memories/experiences are passed down to our offspring through DNA in a form more like a gut feeling or instinct. I believe the body and soul are two different living symbiotic entities each relying on the other to exist in the physical world. And when one dies, the other, which is pure energy and cannot die (our soul) moves on to host another body. Reincarnation is the most logical explanation of afterlife in my opinion. I have a VERY strong feeling that one of my past lives was a sailor on a schooner in the 1600's. I can't explain the overwhelming feeling I get whenever I see one whether in real life or in a photograph.

very cool story dean.

I am very intrigued at how the mechanics of reincarnation might work.

My son, who is now 31, has some strange connections, co-incidences or whatever you want to call them with my father's best friend. He had died many years before my son was born and my son knew nothing about him, he didn't even know he existed. When my son was 17 he passed his driving test and wanted to buy a car. Not just any car, it had to be a Vauxhall. Why? I don't know, he had never driven one, no family members owned one nor any of his friends but that's the only make he would buy. He then joined the RAF as an engineer. No-one in the family had served with them or any of his friends and aquaintances. A few years after that he said he was thinking of getting a gold tooth. No particular reason and again no connection with anyone who had one.

After the gold tooth statement I started to think there was maybe something more to this. My father's friend, who I knew very well and was like family to me was an engineer with the RAF during WW2. The only make of car he ever owned was a Vauxhall which he changed every 2 years and he had a gold tooth.

Of course I can't say that my son is the re-incarnation of this man but when you have 3 definitive links to a deceased person, and these links are totally unconnected with each other, it does make me wonder.

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Thank you Dean and Franlee for sharing your stories. I hope other readers who have had experiences such as yours will post them as well.

To ‘unknown’ the mechanics of reincarnation (if I understand your question correctly) are often said to be based on karma and/or lesson learning and/or soul evolution with the background idea being that a soul is trying to ”improve/better itself” through each incarnation. There are debates about who and what a human soul can reincarnate into. Some believe that all sentient beings are options, other say not possible. There is also dispute on if a soul can “go back” or be “punished” for mistakes or no. Finally, the “end goal” of reincarnation is also uncertain with differing views on this as well.

There is definitely a lot open to interpretation and personal or spiritual beliefs on this theme...





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